Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Some Goals for 2015

As is usual for many people when a new year rolls around, I thought about some changes I would like to see in my life.  I did not write them down but these are some things I would like to see change and things I would like to do that I hope would lead to a happier, better me.  On some of them, I have made some progress and on some others, not so much. Here they are:


Build a closer relationship with God: Like I mentioned in my previous post, my relationship with God is one of the most important aspects of my life.  When I think about my life as a Christian, I generally conclude that there is so much progress I need to make.  I barely read my bible. My prayer sessions are typically filled with lots of demands and sadness over what I do not have.  Anyways, I realized that in order to get closer to God, I have to spend time with him and also read more of his word.  My goal was to read my devotional every day and also read a chapter of the bible every day.  So far, I've done more reading of my devotional than the chapters in the bible.  In fact, I have only successfully read two chapters of Romans. I plan to do better. Change is not easy but I will try. 

Read a book a month: I used to read a lot and I enjoy reading.  Those of you who enjoy reading books know that there are many benefits to reading.  You learn a lot about places, people and things without even necessarily having a personal experience with them..Additionally, it helps build one's vocabulary.  All the big words I know I gained from reading lots and lots of romance books. Yeah, I am partial to romance novels.  I'll admit though that my choices in genres are becoming diverse.  The books I have but haven't read range from biographies to self help books.  Right now I am reading a self help book.  Unfortunately, I do not think I'll finish it this month though.  It's an amazing book and I will share more on the book when I get done.

Travel: The last time I went on a vacation was in 2013, before that it was in 2007. Yes. And I am someone who enjoys travelling.  The problem/excuse I have been giving myself is that I have no one to go on a trip with.  I am determined to go on at least one vacation this year and I won't count it as a vacation if I go to a place I've been to before.  I am toying with the idea of going by myself (oh, the fear!).  We'll see how this goes but I will try really hard to accomplish this goal.  My vacation hours must not go to waste and I don't wanna be a waste.  

Save money/Invest:  I like having money and I want more money in my bank account.  One of my goals this year is to look for more money saving opportunities.  So far, I have done a good job of not adding to my credit card balance (except $9.99 for netflix) and paying it down..I have also relearned how to paint my toe nails in order to save $7.00 every two months.  Don't laugh.  Little drops of water make the mighty ocean. I am hoping to subscribe to hulu and say goodbye to cable. I am figuring out how to save on how much I spend on my hair. I haven't concluded on a plan yet. Speaking of hair, see the next goal.

Grow my hair and edges: My edges need a savior and it is not I. Well, it is I but I haven't done a good job on them.  So far, they are acting like they wanna dethrone Naomi Campbell's.  I need to do something quickly.  Problem is I have the smelly Black Jamaican Castor Oil but it's one thing having the oil and another thing actually applying the oil.   I have done a good job staying away from braiding my hair because braiding my hair got me here.  However, the spots on my hair have refused to respond to any...well, I don't think I have treated it right.  I pledge to do so and will await the results. I will keep you posted.

There are more goals I want to share but it's my bedtime and I have to go.  Keep your eyes open for part 2.  Remind me if I forget. I'll love to hear your plans and goals for 2015 and what you have done to try to accomplish them so far.  So, comments please. Please? :)

Have an amazing week!




1 comment:

  1. WWIM, how are you dear?

    Read your two posts, kudos to you!

    Sorry about your break up, events in life happen for our good. Look at these two passages in the bible, no leaf can drop down without his consent; all our hairs are numbered and no strand can fall without his knowledge..

    You see, everything works for our good. It may be a positive event or a negative one, but they all work for our good. Lovely goals you have up there. the only thing i will enjoin you not to do as you blog is writing and putting so much about you to the outside world. Everyone in the world has access to this and the info you have put up.

    In as much as you trying to discover yourself, make more friends, go out, don't keep to yourself, join groups in your church, join social groups-reading club, dancing clubs, play games....whatever interest you.

    As you open up more, you will let go and as you meet more people, you will be happy again and move on with your life.

    It was in the middle of the sea that God made a way for the Israelite. When it seems there is a deadlock, help rises for us from places we least expect. Since its your desire to get married, you will cos the desires of the righteous shall not be cut short.

    Till then, fulfill your personal dreams, find God, have fun, enjoy yourself, make yourself happy, do the things you love doing....

    much love

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